The Quirk Theory: Why Outsiders Thrive After High School
Why is it that even as adults, we judge ourselves as if we were still in high school? How could such a brief time in our lives have left us with such an enormous imprint? And what is it with labels anyway? The Band Geek. The New Girl. The Popular Bitch. The Loner. The Jock. The Drama Twinkie.
In her new book “The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth,” author Alexandra Robbins examines the psychology and science behind being popular and being an outcast. Not all is bad news, however, in this trip back in time to our own high school home rooms. The encouraging news is this: the very things that set outcast students apart in high school, are the things that help them stand out later in life.
Why does this book matter? Because if you have children, it’s a great handbook for what they may be going through now or may be headed for shortly. It provides tips and tools for parents and kids alike.
With a son about to embark on the perilous path to high school this fall, I’d like to arm him with as much wisdom as possible. Wisdom and also the reassurance to forge his OWN path and not be a follower. Because as Alexandra Robbins so wisely points out, it’s the quirky ones — the independent thinkers that beat to their own drum — that will inherit the earth.
Some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten is from other moms. I’d love to hear your thoughts on the subject.
May 7, 2011 @ 11:15 am
Wow, you really nailed it with this post. I have a daughter who fits your description and I’ll have to pick up the book to find out more. Thanks for sharing this info. You are a terrific writer!
May 7, 2011 @ 12:05 pm
Informative, interesting post. MUST add that book to my list. Thank you!
May 17, 2011 @ 5:18 am
My 7th grade son has come to terms with the fact that he is an “odd duck.” Fortunately, he has surrounded himself with friends who simply don’t care because they, too, are odd ducks. It’s really a strange mish-mash of kids from learning-disabled C-average students to brainiacs to slackers…the only thing missing is the jocks. Hm–wonder why THAT is?
May 19, 2011 @ 4:16 pm
Wow. A trip back in time to high school … thanks but NO thanks!
Great post in that it reminds me how much guidance I need to provide my kids with. I’ll be sure to check out the book.